After 6 weeks of "No Baby Max," big brother caved and decided he wanted to hold Max. We set him up with the boppy and hovered, ready to jump in at any moment. But after 4,000 times of hearing the phrase "Be gentle, Harry," the meaning of the words appeared to sink in. Harry was surprisingly gentle. He cuddled baby Max, studied his tiny features and even gave him a kiss. Max was sleeping through this first interaction, so Harry pointed at baby brother's closed eyes and said: "Turn his eyes on, Mommy?"